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Talking about objects (Or: Dutch lesson 4 of 14)

Tuesday’s class actually had an awesome moment. We had a speaking exercise where we were paired up with our buurvrouw (neighbor, female). We had to roleplay one of us being the one asking for employment (me) and the other being the receptionist from the company giving information (her). So all the groups practiced their speaking bits. I said I was looking for a preschool teacher job (peuterleidster), but that as partly because it was a vocabulary word we learned the page before.

For us, there was a section where my partner struggled a bit with what to ask – describing what would I do at the job. After a few seconds, I spoke up and just stated what I would do (play with the kids and teach them). And then the practice section was done, a bit before the rest of the students. I am not sure if the teacher noticed that, because we got called on…

So we recited our “phone conversation” to the entire class.  I was a bit nervous, as I am used to writing everything down so I don’t forget anything, but I hadn’t done that. As you know, I am definitely not one of the best speakers in the class. The nice thing during the exercise was that my partner switched it up a bit – she asked me what I could do for the job, rather than trying to describe it herself (where she got into trouble last time). So we rattled everything off…

…and after we were done a few people looked stunned and one even said “Whoa.” at what we had put together. Booyah! Niki looks smart when speaking for once.

(Of course, the teacher said it was good and then spent the next few minutes dissecting the conversation and telling us what the mistakes were. Ha.)

This time there were more students (18) than the last time (12). It seems like a handful of them were on vacation last week. It made it a bit harder for everyone to find a seat in the newly improvised “sit in a large square with our desks” seating arrangement, but it worked out. I am sure it was against fire code (people were technically blocked in on all sides), but otherwise okay.

During the break, one of the students went up to speak to the teacher. It seems that the student was finding the class a bit difficult and was hoping to go back down to level A1. The teacher told her to go to the register’s office at the front of the building and see if there was anything they could do. Unfortunately when she came back, she said that the next A1 class wasn’t until September. I am not sure what she is going to do – maybe she’ll stick around.

One of the grammar things that we learned this time was referring to an object as “it” or similar. Of course, Dutch has three variations – de, het, and plurals.

De words (most popular)

Subject form – hij

Object form – hem

* Waar is mijn brief? Waar is hij? (Where is it [my letter]?)

* Hij heeft je brief. Hij heeft hem. (He has it.)

—Yes, if you’re playing along, you’ll realize ‘hij’ is also the word for ‘he’!

Het words

Subject form – het

Object form – het

* Het paspoort ligt op de tafel. Het ligt op de tafel. (It lies on the table.)

* Heb jij mijn paspoort? Heb jij het? (Do you have it?)

Plurals

Subject form – ze

Object form – ze

* Mijn pasfoto’s zijn niet goed. Ze zijn niet goed. (They [passport photos] are not good.)

* Ik vind mijn pasfoto’s niet leuk. Ik vind ze niet leuk. (I don’t like them.)

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Reading Dutch (Or: Comic inside the apartment foyer)

Inside the apartment Marco and I live in, there’s a comic mounted to the wall.

Dutch comic for apartment complex rules

The comic lists the various rules you should abide by when living in an apartment shared by many tenants. I remember the first time I visited the Netherlands, at some point I asked him what the comic said. He told me, but I forgot again. On the third trip, I wondered again but didn’t want to bug him again with the question (as it really doesn’t matter) so I started to ignore the comic altogether. I kept doing this after I moved here in December, as I only thought of the comic as something I couldn’t read.

Imagine my surprise last week when, after a trip to Albert Heijn, I actually stopped and stared at the comic, realizing that it was actually pretty easy to read now. First the red side, and then the green:

Open de deur niet voor vreemden

Don’t open the door for strangers.

Geen vuilniszakken en oud papier in het portiek

No trash or old paper in the foyer.

Geen oude meubels, fietsen, en andere rommel in het portiek

No old furniture, bikes, or other junk in the foyer.

Houd samen met de buren het portiek schoon

Clean the foyer with your neighbors.

Heeft u ergens problemen mee? Spreek uw buren hier op een rustige manier over aan

Do you have problems (with your neighbor)? Talk to your neighbor in a calm manner about it.

Is er iets stuk in het portiek? Meld dit via 0900-1434

Is there something broken in the foyer? Report it [call] 0900-1434.

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ING (Or: New bank account)

Today Marco and I went to ING bank to set up a bank account for me. Previously I had just been withdrawing money from an ATM and using cash in stores like Albert Heijn, Hema and etc. but this can get annoying with all of the coins that begin to clutter your wallet, as the euro uses coins for 1 euro and 2 euros. The smallest bill is 5 euros. It also means I pay an ATM usage fee from Chase ($5) for using a foreign ATM. Not too bad, but if does add up.

The wait at ING was very long. It probably didn’t help that it was a Saturday afternoon… but the wait was about 25 minutes. When you enter you need to take a number from the automated machine, which is pretty common in this country it seems. There was only 4 numbers ahead of us, but both of the question & answer lines were moving rather slow. For now they have me a temporary card. In about a week a debit card with my name on it will arrive.

It is kind of funny, since my wallet has definitely started to fill up with cards. Debit card, official ID card, health insurance, library card, public transportation card, etc etc. Crazy!

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Samenspraak (Or: Meetup in Den Haag Bibliotheek)

Yesterday I decided to try something new.  A few months ago I had heard about Samen Spraak (speaking together), which is sponsored by Gilde Den Haag. The first Wednesday of every month they have Samenspraak Café in The Hague’s centraal library. You can go there and speak with other people in Dutch – both with native Dutch speakers and with foreigners who are learning the language.

In addition, you have an intake meeting where they ask what your interests are. Based on that they pair you up with someone who can help you learn the language (and you both learn about each other’s culture). They suggest that you meet weekly but understand if that doesn’t work out. The two speakers need to schedule when they will meet. It’s a volunteer effort but requires some subsidy to keep it running – everyone pays 25 euros.

When I went there last night I lucked out because the same woman who had told me about it a few months ago was the person who spied me standing there looking a bit lost. Although you can arrive anytime between 5:30 – 7:30PM, it was already pretty crowded by 5:45 when I arrived. There weren’t many chairs left to be found, but she sat me next to a lovely gentleman who has been living in the Netherlands for almost 15 years. After a few minutes more people arrived and the table was full.

There was also a few ladies from Russia, a native Dutch speaker who works in parliament as a stenographer, and a gentleman who spoke mostly Arabic and was also keen to learn English. As I had moved pretty recently, my Dutch speaking skills were still pretty rusty. Everyone was patient though, and the woman I mentioned before also slipped in a few English words here and there when she realized I couldn’t exactly follow the subject of the conversation. I ended up staying for the full two hours, although I definitely had a slight headache after that due to the amount of concentration needed to listen to the Dutch. But I did pretty well!

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Seating arrangements (Or: Dutch lesson 3 of 14

Last night was the third Dutch lesson. I still have a pretty big fear of opening my mouth and actually talking Dutch (unless you’re a friend/family member) so it makes it interesting. As usual, I did my routine of finishing the homework before actually attending the class – it helps me pay attention a bit better.

Of course, it’s still possible to:

1. Not be paying attention when called on. Twice the teacher asked me a question or to do something, and both times I was distracted by an upcoming grammar section. (What can I say? I love grammar and rules.) But, how embarrassing!

It’s interesting – you never realize how much you can multitask and still listen to your native language, because things are stored in your short term memory. I was walking on the street. Since I am not yet fluent in Dutch, I still subconsciously tune out  language and ignore conversations around me. But I passed two women who ended up speaking in English. It was only after a few seconds and their sentence was half done that my brain realized it was English. So it automatically went back and replayed what it heard so I could know what they were saying.

But that isn’t possible yet in Dutch – the language doesn’t make enough sense to stick in my short term memory, and thus if I am not concentrating on listening I can’t go back and re-hear what was said.

2. It’s also possible to make a mistake on the one sentence you are called on to answer, even if you have the other 9 sentences correct. (The present perfect participle for komen [to come] is gekomen, not gekwam.) I mixed it up the with the straight past tense conjugation, which for the ‘I’ form is gekwam. Opps.

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Roti (Or: A Dutch variation)

Last night Marco and I went to his father’s house. I had roti for the first time. Of course, there are many different ways to make roti.

roti dish in the Netherlands

In this version, you have the wrap underneath, as well as small green beans, potatoes, and chicken that is so tender it falls off the bone. You cut off a triangle (like a pizza slice), and then pile some of the food on it. You then wrap over the edges. You can either spear it with a fork, or eat it with your hands.

Dessert was ice cream with fudge and pieces of mango. Yum.

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Gemeente Museum (Or: Delft blauw and other pieces)

Yesterday I posted a picture of what Marco’s mother bought – two Delft blauw cat figurines. We went to the Gemeente Museum. Both tickets were free because I received a sleutelhanger (key ring) when I signed up for a library card at The Hague’s public library. The key ring is enough to get free admission (through March) for yourself as well as friends and family.

So we decided to make an afternoon of it, and have lunch there as well. Here are some of the pictures I took. (Mostly sculptures and other non-paintings, as you aren’t allowed to take pictures of paintings.)

First, my favorite piece, and also the first thing I laid eyes on:

Gemeente Museum orange glass sculpture

Its color makes it very noticeable from across the room.

Gemeente Museum Chinees blauw sculpture

An example of Chinese blue and white porcelain, which was the inspiration for “Delft Blauw” or Delft blue. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blue_and_white_porcelain

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Playing (Or: Delft blauw cat figurines)

It’s Friday! Here’s some cat figurines, in the style of Delft blauw:

Delft blauw playing cat figures

A random purchase that Marco’s mother made. Where exactly she made the purchase will have to be for another time, as we’re going out tonight to a friend’s birthday party.

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ATMs and stores (Or: Large denominations of euros)

Since I haven’t been in the Netherlands too long yet, I do not have a bank account. Now that I am registered as a legal resident, I technically can get one at any point, however. One thing that I find a bit strange with the Netherlands is the apparent passivity to receiving and spending large denominations of euros – particularly €50. Especially when you consider that right now €50 is closer to $60.

Oddity #1: Dutch ATMs prefer to give you a €50 bill at all costs. If you ask for €60, you will get a €50 bill and a €10 bill back. In the US, you always get back $20s. Of course, I could ask for €20 each time, but  I am still using my American debit card (tied to my Chase account) to withdraw money, and there’s a $5 fee for use in foreign ATMs. That’s fair, but it does mean that I will always try to withdraw €100 to reduce how many times I have to pay the fee. I might withdraw even more (like €200), but considering my luck, the machine would probably give me two €100 bills!

Oddity #2: Most stores seem oddly nonplussed about accepting €50 bills. Of course, this is limited to the stores I have frequented so far, but half the time I expect an alarm to go off and the police to swoop in an arrest me for trying to hand over a €50 bill for a €15 purchase. (I’m joking, but I did have to break a €50 for a €15 purchase today.) I have memories of the hometown Burger King refusing to accept $50 bills even for a purchase around twenty five dollars. So I had it ingrained in me as a child that you just don’t do that. If you can help it. Exceptions: buying clothes, etc, where the total tends to be higher by default.

Oddity #3: Dutch banks will look at you funny if you ask for smaller change. This one I only know from asking questions, but I don’t doubt it. I am used to the US where I had to ride the bus back and forth daily. It wasn’t that far of a ride, so I only needed $1 bills (about $4 a day), but… My routine was to go to the bank every week and break a twenty dollar bill into singles. The bank tellers knew me by name, and sometimes even started counting out singles before I was at the desk. (Useful except when I was really there to withdraw a rent.)

I did see a sign in Xenos (a thrift-ish store) saying no €100 bills or higher, though I do know they will accept €50s (even if your purchase is less than €8…!). Hmm.

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Snacks (Or: Kelly’s Expat Shopping)

A few weeks ago, I went to Kelly’s Expat Shopping in The Hague. I was looking for a few surprises to give Marco for Valentine’s Day. Originally I wanted to go there because the website said that they had sour nerds in stock, but that proved to be wrong unfortunately.

The store was bigger than I expected, and the aisles were definitely wide enough. Since it was my first time there, I took my time looking up and down the aisles to make sure I didn’t miss anything good.

I did end up getting him five things – a bag of sour skittles (to replace the non-existent nerds), Frank’s hot buffalo wing sauce, a small bag of Synder’s Jalapeno pretzel bits, Welch’s grape jelly, and Jack Daniel’s spicy barbecue sauce. The main one was the barbecue sauce, since it is classified as a liquid and thus can’t be ordered from America or the UK. You can bring it over in luggage, though. The grape jelly is good for peanut butter & jelly sandwiches, since it is hard to find jelly in this country. Mainly they just have jam, which is a slightly different taste.

Since there is currently roadwork going on this year, I was not able to take tram 17 like I said planned, but instead had to take tram 3. It just meant a bit further of a walk. But due to that I was able to get this image:

rocks for sale in a candy dispenser

It’s a candy dispenser, repurposed to sell polished rocks. You can see a sign underneath with a list of the various types of rocks available.

ignatiusparochie den haag

Ignatious Parish, a nearby church

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